Here you will find answers to the questions I am often asked, with more being added regularly. Read through, so that we can get on with asking the much more interesting ones…
How do I BOOK OR ENQUIRE ABOUT A SESSION? WHAT’S THE ETIQUETTE?
Basics first. My Book a Session page has all the information you need if you wish to see Me for a session.
WHERE DO BDSM SESSIONS HAPPEN?
I am based in London, and have access to a variety of spaces and venues in and around the city. I also travel outside of London sometimes, on tours, or by request on occasion. Sessions can happen in a variety of environments, depending on the needs of the session and our personal dynamic.
Most sessions take place in some of My favourite dungeons across London. From the industrial oubliette of Facility X, to the dark sensuality of Peacock Parlour, there are some superb spaces, these and more, and I will choose one that supports our mutual desires. I also have access to some domestic style spaces in East & Central London, for those who prefer a more relaxed, at home feeling setting.
On a rare occasion, a hotel may be the right space for a session. I have My own insights on the most discreet and suitable locations if so.
I also sometimes travel or tour, throughout the UK, and will entertain requests for Fly Me To you adventures. If there is somewhere you have in mind, you may suggest it
WHAT CAN WE DO IN A SESSION?
Our session will be unique to the communication and alchemy between us. I have some particular interests and skills, along with some things I do not offer in my sessions. You can read more about both on my Fetishes, Kinks and Interests page. It is a non-exhaustive list, so if there’s something you don’t see listed, ask within.
HOW MUCH DOES A SESSION COST?
My tribute can vary depending on what we want to do and the venue we use, though my standard rate for most spaces in London are below. This fee includes the venue rental cost, unless we book somewhere that is dramatically different.
Most dungeon based sessions;
- 1 hr – £330
- 2 hr – £460
- 3 hr – £650
- 4 hr – £840
- 5hr + Bespoke
For sessions of longer than 4 hours, overnight sessions, or extended stays, enquire within for a bespoke rate.
ARE YOUR RATES NEGOTIABLE?
HOW LONG SHOULD I BOOK FOR A SESSION?
Most of My sessions are 2-5 hours. 1 hour is rarely enough time to get you to shake off your outer layer, so my tribute reflects My preference for enough time to relax. Longer sessions give us the space to go much deeper.
Many dungeons are now 90min/2hr minimum bookings, so 1hr rates may change dependant on venue costs.
I'M NOT SURE I WANT TO SESSION YET, BUT I'D LIKE TO SPEND SOME TIME WITH YOU.
Do you want to explore Breakfast and Bondage? A little light CBT over Lunch? Dinner date before the Dungeon?
Perhaps you wish to simply spend some time in my company, before deciding on whether we book a session together, to ask me some questions, and get to know Me outside of the playspace. Alliteration or otherwise, I offer multiple ways to spend time with Me.
Lunch dates, cups of coffee, or a long walk in a public space together for around an hour are £150 + expenses covered.
Relaxed Dinner dates without play involved are £200 + expenses covered, in a restaurant of my choice. You can find an exceptional list of places to invite me to here – https://www.sirclaireblack.co.uk/perverts-picks-recommended-dining-in-london/
I also offer talk-time, consultations and conversations rather than sessions. It can be on the phone or over a Skype call, or sometimes in the play spaces in person, where we can talk over our shared interests. These can be fantastic if you want to ask Me questions or osmose a little creative kink wisdom. Especially if this is your first time applying for a session, a call with Me can help alleviate any anxieties or worries before stepping into a scene. Outside of a scene or session, I have been known to be very warm and welcoming, and will discuss your needs and concerns without judgement. It can take a huge amount of bravery to seek to fulfil our desires, and I respect those who do.
HOW DO I PAY YOU? WHAT HAPPENS IF I CANCEL?
My preferred way to receive payments is via direct bank transfer, though I have other options if needed.
All bookings require 50% of the agreed session fee to be paid beforehand as a deposit. If a bank transfer is not possible, I have Paypal (you will need a specific link to use this), Wishtender, Cash App, and some other options. Deposits may also be delivered in person, though carry an additional fee of £50 to organise.
The remainder of your session fee can be paid by the same means as your deposit the day before our session, or bought with you in cash in an envelope to be given to Me when you arrive.
Deposits are non-refundable. If you need to reschedule more than 72 hours before our booking, it can be transferred to another date if booked within a month of the original time, at the same location. Bookings cancelled within 72 hours forfeit their deposit.
CAN I BOOK YOU TODAY?
Most sessions need at least 48 hours notice, preferably more, and replies to enquiries can be expected 24hrs to a week after receiving. Sessions booked with less notice than 48 hours notice are likely to incur a fee for the rush, and may require full payment before the session.
I am usually available for sessions from 10am-Midnight from Tuesday to Sunday.
DO YOU OFFER ONLINE SESSIONS?
I don’t often offer online sessions, my passion is for flesh, and full sensory immersion. When I do so it will be on specific days, announced in advance on my Twitter. On these days I will offer Skype sessions, phone calls and other online platforms.
More Q&A’s are being added regularly, so if you haven’t seen the answer you were seeking, ask Me in your email.